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im a lil' confused right now
well, to put it short i have a friend of mine who is bi. i have no problem with that, but i slept over her house the other night and she tried it on with me, now i don't think that i'm bi myself (although i could be wrong) but she turned me on so i let her finger me and she went down on me, which i must admit i really didn't mind. But i also enjoy guys touching me. Now i've never found i looked 'that way' at other girls before, and i still don't, but i'll still let her do things to me when i'm feeling horny. now is this just because i enjoy sex so much i don't care who it's with, or am i bi do you think? p.s-i have a boyfriend. take care x x x
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I think only you can say who you are. Do I think you have to have it all figured out right now, or even in five years? No.
Sexual activities have the potential to feel good - no matter who with. At the end of the day, someone's fingers or tongue have no gender. I think you are normal for experiencing pleasure.
I also think you are normal for being confused. If your friend turned you on, sure, I think there's a chance you could be bisexual. Or you could just be a really open-minded straight girl.
I'm more concerned about the fact that you have a boyfriend but appear to be cheating on him regularly. I don't think you need to me say that infidelity is a quick way to put an end to any relationship.
So, decide if you want to be with this guy or not. If so, I'd stop messing around with your friend. If not, then you're obviously free to do what you want.
Why not keep your mind open for the next few years and see what happens? It's entirely possible to be bisexual without checking girls out all the time. After all, you probably aren't giving every single GUY that you pass the eye. Certain people attract us, others don't. It's that simple.
Good luck.
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