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My best friend ALWAYS gets the guys...
Hi. I'm a 14 year old girl and I'm confused/frustrated. I hate the fact that my friend always gets the guys. And it doesn't help that she's such a flirt and she has a tendency to lead guys on. I've also tried talking to her about all of this and I tell her how I hate the fact that guys go to her before they come to me. She thinks it's because I'm "too quiet" . Well the only reason I don't speak up is because she's too busy flirting with the guy and I can't get a word in. How do I set myself apart from my friend and if I am "too quiet" then what should I say to a guy when I like him? Any advice? Thanks a bunch!
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Well...if you can't get it through to your friend by actually speaking to her, try writing her a note explaining how she is making you feel and try to be reasonable. If you just acuse her without staying calm, she might ignore you. Hopefully, if you get through to her, she'll lay off. Otherwise, I suggest that you aren't around her if you are trying to talk to a guy you like. Maybe hang around another friend (but don't completely ditch your best friend!) or go by yourself. That way, you get more speaking time in and people can see you for who you are instead of labeling you as "too quiet". I hope I've helped...*Kaylee*
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