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What would you call it if you had yourcloths off and kind of had sex but the thing didnt go in the other thing but there was like the actioms lb it like sex. See that hapenend to me. I was at my house taking a bath and the front door was unloked and my boy friend walked in and walkied in the bathroom and he kindof pulled me out of the bath tub and took me to the bed room, I really didnt care and then he did thatstuff to me. See I am 14 and I was left home and He is 17 and now I keep on asking him if he once to have sex and he says no.. He says he doesnt want to hurt me well it hurts me when he says no. like he sayd if we get married whats the chances after what we did in my bedroom it was kindof like sex right
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In response to your question, and the advice you were given... what you did was normal. But why do you want to have sex? You're only fourteen. You have the rest of your life to be sexually active. Hold on to your childhood. Your boyfriend may have overstepped some boundaries by trying to be romantic, but he is correct in telling you he does not want to have sex. You're not in love and sex will do a lot more damage to you physically and emotionally than you are clearly ready for.
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What you did is called frottage. It's not talked about a lot, so girls are often plagued with those 'is this normal?' / 'what am I doing?' type questions, but I promise, it can be a normal and healthy way to experiment.
They way you talk about what your boyfriend did is frankly worrying though. He just burst into your bathroom and scooped you up? You've said that you don't care about what he did, but did you actually want him to do it? Did you say that he could? It seems to me that your boyfriend has seriously overstepped the mark here and you need to have a frank talk about what you both would like and what you both expect. It's bad to just stumble into a sexual relationship (and though this particular act is not sex, it is a sexual act) without talking things over. Be honest with him about what you are comfortable with and what you'd like from him to avoid confusing situations like this where you do something without much thought and then don't know where you stand. Good luck.
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