Question Posted Wednesday December 8 2004, 3:53 pm
my friend is quite the slut..im not being mean or anything but she is..shes had 13 boyfriends since september and had sex with 8 of them..how do i tell her what she is doing is wrong and that she should stop b/c its not helping her reputation..and how do i tell her w/o her getting pissed off and taking it the rite way x33 cOnfUsEd
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? dancinqueen08 answered Friday December 10 2004, 5:10 pm: You need to tell her straight up because she might not listen any other way. Don't just go out and call her a slut, but let her know that what she's doing is not right or good. She might not care and like the way she is acting or think anything is wrong with it. In that case, if you don't agree with it then you'll just have to stop being her friend. There is always a possibility of her getting upset, so it just depends on if you are willing to take the chance. Also, listen to her point of view on the whole thing. There might be something going on that you don't know about and maybe you can help her through it. [ dancinqueen08's advice column | Ask dancinqueen08 A Question ]
xoxlilshortyxox answered Thursday December 9 2004, 5:15 pm: Tell her shes your friend and if she were to get AIDs or HIV and die you would be upset. Tell her that you heard people talking about her and calling her a slut and you don't think she should be treated that way.
xox britt [ xoxlilshortyxox's advice column | Ask xoxlilshortyxox A Question ]
kcastanon01 answered Thursday December 9 2004, 4:24 pm: hmm that's crazy. i guess she has to learn from her mistakes. i know you might be worried about her, but i don't see how you could avoid her getting mad. maybe let her know what the people are saying and ask her how she feels about it. don't lie to her! if she gets mad, then back off, because atleast you can say you tried. [ kcastanon01's advice column | Ask kcastanon01 A Question ]
charmed-cherry21 answered Wednesday December 8 2004, 6:27 pm: Just tell her you are really worried about her and that you dont like the things shes doing and that if she doesnt stop having sex with so many guys then you may not be able to be friends with her.
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