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Question Posted Tuesday December 7 2004, 10:54 pm

Well, mainly its like this. I go to high school this year and this jerk that i trusted as a friend told everyone i was a lesbian. Then, i didnt make the dance team and i said some stuff online. I was so upset though and people took me seriously and called the cops saying i was trying to kill myself. Then the next day i couldnt go to school cuz they had to take my dad to rehab for his drinking so i went to my grandmas. Anyways, apparently ppl were crying all day and talking about how i killed myself. Now everyone thinks i am a nutcase. How can i convince those that dont know me and are judging my unfairly that i am normal and not a lunatic?

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JeNbABe33894 answered Saturday December 11 2004, 12:39 pm:
well, ok first of all, make sure that people are trustworthy before you say anyhtign to them.. and dont tell people that you are going to kill yourself if you arent... but if you were seriously thinking about it you should have told an adult instead of other people. and by people callign the police thats just like them sayign that they care about you and you should be happy that they care that much about you but i can see where you would be upset. Just tell people that you were just very upset about not making the dance team and that you couldnt go to school the next day but it had nothing to do with you tryign to kill yourself.first tell that to friends and see what they say because if you can gain back even just one friend then they can help you become friends with others and then people will start to get to know you and they wont be as quick to judge you as they get to know you.


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