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helpp!
friday im spossed to go to this boys house, i never did anything before (sexually) and i dont know if its scary or..gross or, can you mess up doing anything? ..i guess i want to no what its like b4 it happens lol..
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Sexual experimentation is a confusing and exciting place - and anything new has the potential to be scary.
If you want to be as calm and happy about it as possible, you need to figure out where you stand regarding sex: Do you want to have sex before marriage? Only with people you love? What do you think about oral sex? Are you prepared to visit a gyno to obtain condoms, birth control pills, etc?
Even if some of these issues might not affect you for awhile, it's a good idea to start thinking about them now - that way you won't find yourself in an awkward or embarassing situation. You need to decide what you are comfortable with, and then stick to that with any guy you are seeing.
So, that covers the scary. As for the gross? If you find an activity gross, don't do it. It's that simple. You might not be ready for it, or you might genuinely not enjoy it...everybody likes/dislikes different things.
And messing up? Anything new means you can make mistakes, but I wouldn't say you could mess up. As long as you know what you want and how to protect yourself, you'll be fine.
Good luck.
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