SO, what is the best way to tell if your feelings for a person are friendly or more??
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? XoLiLmsYaNkeeOx answered Sunday December 5 2004, 11:50 am: hmm lets see. there are several ways to do this, and im not sure if there is any one best way, because they al seem to work for me. one way to tell is to name three things about this person that you like/love. if you can do that easily, then you def have a friendship. but now how do you know if its more? well how fast did you come up with these reasons.. and, be honest, did u smile when thinking about them? did a certain memory come to mind that made you happy? if yes, then you could be crushing. now be totally honest with yourself, no1 knows your thinking about it, but roughly how many times a day do you think about this person? if the answer is 5 times or more.. well you know. and when do you think about this person? is it at random times or specific times? what do you think of when you think about this person? are they good things, things that probably bring out the better side of this person that you like/love to see? do you ever find yourself daydreaming about this person? do your daydreams include the two of you together? and do you ever dream at night of this person? dreams are a way of our subconscious mind helping us out with what we really feel. if you answered yes to most of these questions, then you are definietly more than friendly with this person. which could be a very very good thing if you make it happen. so get out there and let them know how you feel!! mayb a relationship will come of it.. now wouldnt that be great? [ XoLiLmsYaNkeeOx's advice column | Ask XoLiLmsYaNkeeOx A Question ]
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