Hey Stef, Kayla Here..
Ok well I am friends with this girl, but now I think it is just out of pity. She is very annoying and nerve recking but I still tend to hang around her. I've known her since like forever, and for the most part she is a social downgrade. I don't know if I should still hang around her if I just don't agree with some of the things she does and some of the people she hangs around. Most of the time people associate me with her and I just don't like it. I want to break away from this long-term friendship without hurting her feelings or getting in a fight. What should I do Stefanie??? I need help..Thanks Chicka Love yaz..)Kayla(
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? UWishUHadMyHemi answered Sunday December 5 2004, 5:26 pm: If she is a true friend, then you should have no problem talking to her honestly, and her not getting mad or anything. Just tell her that you dont appreciate being associated with the things she does, and tell her that because of this, you really dont want to be friends with her anymore. Who knows, she might even realize that she doesnt want to do the things she is doing.. you could make her see that she wants to change. But if she wants to blow up or get mad at you because youre so honest, then you really dont need to be friends with her anyways.
Hope I helped you Kayla.. You know Im always here if you need anything. Just drop one in the inbox! LYLAS! Have a supercalafragilisticexpialidocious day! ~*stefanie (um..i dont know if thats how you really spell it, but i tried, didnt i??) [ UWishUHadMyHemi's advice column | Ask UWishUHadMyHemi A Question ]
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