Question Posted Wednesday December 1 2004, 8:30 pm
I went out with this boy a couple times and then we sorta had a secret relationship but he didnt want to tell anyone..he said he didnt want anything bad to happen. then right before are date he just like broke it off and was yelling at me all this stuff how he was never serious and everything. im so confused if i should be friends with him now and i just feel horrible i dont know wat to do please help.sorry if thats kinda long
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Cath answered Wednesday December 1 2004, 10:31 pm: Hi Sweetie,
It IS confusing. You went out... the relationship was secret... ne day he justs gets mad sat you and breaks up with you... Maybe someone found out or something.
Either way. I'm not sure he'd want to be friends. First I doubt he'll even PRETEND to be friends. Second, if he really wanted to be friends he wouldn't had reacted that way. Well if he does offer don't let him be your friend. He doesn't deserve that privilage. What should you do? Well sort out your feelings first. Find out just what confuses you and think about it. I know the "whole thing" is confusing but there's always a core of confusion.
After you've thought a lot and you're "mourned for your loss" (itn was obviously his loss but I mean after you're let your feelings out for the break up) give yourself time to get up on your feet again. Be independent and know yourself as a person. Meanwhile also get to know other guys as just friends. Its important to be friends with guys before a relationship. There will be more respect and understandment and the relationship will be stronger.
My best wishes sweetie. ~Blessed Be... [ Cath's advice column | Ask Cath A Question ]
Chriso61o answered Wednesday December 1 2004, 10:08 pm: fuck him seriosuly thats messed up your sooo much better than that and who's to say he wont do that again hes a dick for doing that [ Chriso61o's advice column | Ask Chriso61o A Question ]
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