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Hey,
Well...let's see. I don't know where to begin cuz this is going to sound really stupid. I like two guys. A Junior and a Freshman...it's just weird for me. I'm so used to being crazy about one guy and now i've got two? I really don't know what to do with myself. When I'm with one...it feels so right and it'd be good to go out with him but i couldn't see it getting serious. And the other...well, i think we'd be great for each other but i don't think he likes me like that. But it still feels good and right to be around him. and I'd love to go out with him. I could see us being in a serious relationship. So...should i just get some time to myself and think about which would be better for me? How do you measure which is a better choice? what would you do? I'm a freshman btw..
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Nah, that doesn't sound stupid--it's a very valid question, lol. Neither choice is necessarily "better" than the other, it's just a matter of what you're looking for in the relationship! If you aren't looking for a serious relationship, then I'd say to go with the first guy, definitely...but I take it you are, or you wouldn't have thrown that piece of information in there. Don't be discouraged simply because of that, though. If you like this guy, then talk to him! He may turn out to be more "serious" material than you formerly thought. As for the second guy...well, this one's a little bit harder. You won't know how he feels about you until you talk to him, so I can't help you there (sorry!). If you aren't comfortable talking to him about it, I suggest just waiting around and seeing what happens. I know that isn't what you wanted to hear, but I've found that making impulsive decisions about this kind of stuff can lead to regret later on...I mean, if you were to go out with one of them, only to find out later that the other one (considering you still had stronger feelings for him) "liked you like that", then you'd be stuck in the middle of a tough situation, and assuming that you like both these guys, you wouldn't want to hurt either of them. Just make sure you consider that sort of thing before you make your decision =)
About the Junior/Freshman thing, that's another thing that is, again, totally up to you. Two years can be a big age difference during high school years, but it just depends on the two people in the relationship when it comes to how it's going to affect the relationship...You didn't give me any indication as to which guy is which, so I'll just leave it at that =) Good luck! Sorry I couldn't be of more help =/
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