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ok well i think i might like my close friend but i dont wanna like him because i think that like if we break up we wont be good friends any more.
what should i do?
idk
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wow, thats a toughy. well, this situation could take a few directions. 1)since yall are "close" friends already, it could work in your favor bc yall should already know eachother pretty well, well enough to go out and be comfertable. 2)it could be UNcomfertable since yall have been friends. if yall have JUST been friends for like a year, then it might be ok, i mean its not like yall have known each other since yall were 5 and he saw you run out of your house wearin ur b-day suit(just an example, dont worry!), so yall know each other, but he doesnt know your dark secrets! but if he does know secrets, and he's been trustworthy about them, then i would go for it also because you can trust him. 3) if this is a new close friend, then it would probley be an exciting relationship at first bc yall still have stuff to learn about one another. 4)(and last) if he's just your everyday close friend, and you've had feelings before for him, and vise-versa, then i say go for it! obviously if this isnt the first time then you have legitament feeling of VERY strong like, maybe even love! if it was me, then i would just go for it! make yourself happy! but if your ABSLOLUTLY not sure that you like him, then wait and see where things take you. but if you just dont WANT to like him, then dont let your wants get in the way of relationships; you cant be afraid of the future! i mean who knows, yall could make a really great couple!
love ya lots!
~Haley~ ]
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