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ok well this kid is obsessed with me n i dont like him. i like this other kid n the boy who is obsessed with me knows tht. hes trying to tell the kid i like to make me not like him nemore. imnot going to b/c i like him n he cant do tht. please help me i dont know wht to do? should i tell me i dont like him again? the guy i like likes me a little too. what do i do i nedd help.
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hmmm that is a problem. ive been there before and its not fun (yes i know your thinking, wow who in their right mind would like tara? haha but it happens to the best of us, even me lol). first off, has he told you he likes you? if he has and hes asked you out or anything, were you very clear in your let-down? do not make up any excuses, tell him straight up that your sorry but you can't. dont be like, " o well i have to babysit" becuase he'll try again, even if you really do have to babysit. if you think you've been clear in signaling him to go away, and the poor guy STILL doesnt get the hint, than you have to tell him straight up your not into him. if hes just so dumb and doesnt get it even THEN.. than you may have to resort to "Queen Ice Bitch" which stinks a whole lot. but if theres nothing else you can do.. and i mean ABSOLUTELY NOTHING, youve TRIED EVERYTHING.. only THEN can you resort to this terrible method, which includes giving him the cold shoulder. say he comes up to your locker for instance. rather than starting a conversation with him, say a few words, close your locker, and call a goodbye over your shoulder. (yes its mean i know, but what else can you do if youve done everything you can?)if you see him in the hall, dont smile and wave him over.. quickly avert your eyes and keep on stepping as if you never saw him (OUCH i know.. but again, only if hes too dumb to realize you DO NOT LIKE HIM)
ok next..this kid is trying to make the guy you wanna be with not like you.. understandable, hes jealous, of course. if you tried all of the above methods and it hasnt worked, PLEASE feel free to use "Queen Ice Bitch" because this guy is a jerk and deserves it. i mean, if he cares for you he should want you to be happy. and if being happy means you get to be with this other guy, then why is he interfering with your happinesS? tell the guy you do like that you like him.. wow i know its hard but if he likes you and you dont want to let him get away, suck it up and tell him. work up the confidence beforehand, play a little of your favorite music and get an idea of what you want to say to him in your head beforehand. then, if your too nervous to do it in person, take a deep breath, pick up the phone, and dial. things should def start looking up, and if you start dating this guy you like, the other one will be forced to leave you alone.
hope this helped at least some.. good luck!
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