ok so i have this friend, we have soo much in common, i'm always happy when i'm around her and we always have so much fun together and i consider her one of my best friends... but the problem is i feel like we will never be able to better our friendship and get closer because of her other best friend who although i hang out with sometimes do not look to fondly upon me and often get mad and feel that i am trying to steel their friend when i try to do more things with her, one of her "best friends" in particler is someone i know she herself is not happy with but for some reason feels she must stay loyal to this friend... soo i guess i'm asking for advice as to what i might be able to do to better my difficult situation so that i might better my relationship with my friend without making her feel like i'm forcing her to ditch all of her other friends
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? txsunbabe91 answered Monday November 29 2004, 10:55 pm: yeah well i guess im in a similar situation see i dont know why exactly this friend feel loyal becuz maybe they know their other friend is having a difficult time as well trying to find herself and although she feels like she would rather leave her behind she feels somewhat responsible for her well being it seem like a complicated matter i htink the best thing to do would be to talk to your friend im sure she loves hanging out with you and arrange some kind of something i guess this is a hard question to answer but id hav to say that its your friends choice what to do with the situation she may not be sure what to do so why dont you help him/her figure it out by trying to see her feelings maybe shes scared of confrontation and maybe thats the thing she needs most [ txsunbabe91's advice column | Ask txsunbabe91 A Question ]
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