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Confused.
My boyfriend and I have been seeing eachother for a little over 2 years. I know he really loves me, and I really love him too. The thing is, is that he has always had a fantasy of having a 3-some with me and another girl. He said it's only going to be a one time thing, and that the other girl isn't going to mean anything to him- it's just his fantasy. I understand what he is saying and I want to do this for him, but I know I would feel REALLY uncomfortable doing it and I'm not quite sure I could go through with it. I keep telling him I don't really know if I want to- but he keeps bringing it up every now and then. It makes me feel bad when I tell him no. What am I supposed to do, or what should I say to him?
..I'm asking you this because I asked it publically and the moderators deleated my question. =(
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Hey look-if he really, truly loved you he should respect the fact that you dont want to. Who cares if its a one time thing? If you dont want to then dont do it. Next time he asks just be like "If you really love me, you wouldent care that I dont want to. So stop asking me because I wont do it" Just be straight forward and make it clear to him that you wont do it. If he gets mad, then you should wonder if he really, really loves you. Need more help? ask meh!
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