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Friend/Love Interest Lost
Sarah Darling
I am an 18 year old girl in college. I have a neighbor, we'll call him "B". B and I hooked up within the first few days of college, and continued to be together for the first two months of school. However, it was on and off, and then finally culminated when we both decided just to be friends. However, one night when we were both really drunk, I was really hurt by something he said and decided to just be like "maybe we shouldn't be friends anymore, B".
Now, in this one second statement, I had broken a promise to him, turned my back on him, etc. He will not give me a second chance, I have hurt him very badly with everything that I have said (and since that incident happened, there have been other occasions where I really said some nasty stuff to him) Do you think that there is any hope for us to be friends anymore? I don't want to hook up with him anymore (although I truly love this guy), I just want my friend back.
Thanks Babe
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hey sweetie! sounds like you are in a tough spot because this kid lives right next door to you. i dunno if this is the answer you want to hear, but what it sounds like to me is that he needs his space. He's obviously not being rational because he's hurt and upset. Guys get ANGRY when they are SCARED because they don't know how else to deal with it. B is obviously scared and hurt-it takes time to heal those things but they will eventually heal. As for your part in this, you gotta keep reassuring him that you are there for him even if he doesn't wanna hear it. Be there for him, give him his space but never ever ever stop trying because im positive one day he will come around. i hope i helped please just trust me on this one-see you in 3 weeks :)
xoxoxoxo
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