I have this group of friends and they are cheerleaders. I'm not a cheerleader but I never thought that mattered. Anyways I thought they were my friends and I actually was best friends with them until this year. They don't include me in anything anymore. I had to find a new group of people. But for some reason I still want to be friends with them. Help me please
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Im glad I have at least 1 best friend
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? prettYbabYkatiE answered Friday November 26 2004, 3:55 pm: well obviously they aren't true friends if they don't want to do anything with you. but sometimes things get hectic and they are always busy but if they purposely make a point not to include you in things that is where it becomes difficult. well if it were me i guess i would be jealous that they don't like to include me in things. so if i were you then i would ignore them until they notice you.. it works for me sometimes. like there is this girl and she is really nice then i normally walk with HER and so one day i got sick of her not walking with me so i just ended up walking to class by myself. the next day she was like ok lets go to class and she walked with ME. so sometimes you just gotta make them to where they need YOU for something and they will include you more. also the other thing about wanting to be friends with them. that happens to me a lot. one time there was this really mean girl at my school and i just could not stand her.. but yet i wanted to be friends with her? yeah weird, well i hope i answered some what of your question.
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