ok...well heres my problem, im going out with this guy from your school and im still in love with my ex-b/f...my b/f and my ex are now friends which is kinda odd but me and my b/f keep getting in fights that are in relation to my ex...i sometimes find myself lying to my b/f and missing my ex...i still talk to my ex and were really close, ive known him for 2 years and we are like best friends...i could tell him anything, well my b/f doesnt like that too much and i REALLY dont wanna loose him but i still in love with my ex...i recently found myself hurting them both SO much and i dont know what to do...it seems like everytime i turn around im screwing over both relationships. The whole thing started when my ex cheated on me with my ex-best friend...so i was gonna get back at him with my ex ((my b/f mow)) but it ended up that i am now going out with him...im so confused on what to do...pLeAsE HeLp Me!?!
-LoSt AnD bRoKeN-
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? smile4ally answered Friday November 26 2004, 12:59 pm: Well, If at any point you are in a realtionship that you dont want to be in..that realtionship is over already. A good way to find out if your in the right realtionship is to think really hard about it (and in the the words of Brigit Jones) if you can think of 3 good reasons why you shouldnt date one of theses guys, then you shouldnt date them. I know thats its hard to be in relationships as it is, your bound to be slighly confused from time to time, and wonder what it would be like if you were with someone else. But remember you cant have your cake and eat it too. You will have to pick, and as hard as that will be it will make you a strong person.
Picking will prevent the screwing over of the relationships, and hopefully the guys will respect you discion if not..they werent worth your time to begin with.
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