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Im back, i really liked your advise but i forgot to mention some other stuff. I want to let this girl know how much i care and that i do love her. I do love her but i dont want it to be in a BF,GF kind of way jus because it wouldn't work. she wouldnt want it and i dont think it would work, at least not now. How do i tell her i do love her but one level beneath BF,GF. I know she cared about me too and i want to show her i know that. She's in a couple of my classes so it wont be that hard to start conversations with her. it thanksgiving break for us and we get 3 weeks off school, how should i meet up with her. thanks
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Okay this is what I would do: Go hang out with her somewhere, either the movies, out to lunch, etc, just somewhere..Maybe not the movies cause thats like a date kinda place, but like out to lunch or breakfast.. And this is what I would say, "listen. you are seriously like one of my closest friends and like i dunno...it just feels like i have this connection with you that i never really felt with a girl.. I want and need you to know that I care about you so much, not just at a friend level and not even at a gf level, I dont even know what kind of love and care it is.. but i just need you to know whata special person you are to me. seriously do NOT get friggin scared off of this cause I know it might sound weird.. im not expecting anything back from you at all.. I just wanted to let you know that I love you.." and make SURE you keep saying that its more than a friend kinda thing but not a gf kinda thing, its like u see her a such a great person and you feel happy around her that it feels like love.. if you wanna know if she feels the same, i know that she will have some sort of responce after you say whut u needa say, and if for some reason she gets shy or whatever be like, 'and i wanna know how you feel about me as a friend and as a person.." then she will get into it..i really hope this helps, great luck and i would love to know how everything turns out
love kristin
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