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i was in my first period dance class on friday and we had a substitute. we were supposed to be going over the dance that day, but a lot of girls were on the platform that the teacher is usually on and a few people were telling them to get down. they weren't, and so i said politely yall need to get down so we can do our dance, and then this one girl like, is all well we would if someone would stop being so bossy and acting like shes better than everyone else. and i just kinda ignored it and kept talking with my friend. well the entire class this girl (i didnt even know her name) and her friends stood at the back talking and didnt even dance. so when it was time to go get dressed we were in the locker room when this one girl goes, i can sense a lot of tension in here. and someone else goes, whadya mean tension. and then the girl goes, like, people who feel a certain way but wont say anything. i actually didnt really think anything of it until the girl at the beginning said, well i have no problem telling chelsea that i hate her and shes too bossy and self absorbed. at this point i wasnt really thinking cuz i was sorta in shock and i said, well i dont have a problem telling you that ur a bitch. after i said it i was kinda freaked out that i said that and then the girl goes what did she just say? and some other girl goes, she called you a bitch! so now im sorta trying to explain myself and its not really working and she cuts me off saying all this crap and then this other girl is sticking up for me and i was grateful for her, but the girl(i found out later her name is kelci) is totally capable of kicking my ass and im sorta freaked out and then i find out shes talking bad about me behind my back to some of my friends and that totally pissed me off, but im still kinda ashamed of myself for sinking to her level and calling her what i did. i didnt even hardly know her and she decided that she wanted to pick a fight or something. i really dont want there to be any tension or whatever or for this whole thing to keep going and i'm hoping it'll just blow over during the break, but what should i do if it doesnt?
signed,
ashamed in dance
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Oh, um, well when you get the chance- ask her if u can talk to her alone, and then explain to her that u didnt mean what u said, it just kinda slipped out cuz u werent thinking and what she said kind of threw you off. let her know that you were just kind of getting annoyed that she wasnt working and that you dont really think that of her. She probably doesnt think that of u either she just was pissed? i mean some girls havent grown up yet... and since i knwo who this is cuz u said it, i know u have grown up, and just let talk wiht her to clear it up
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