I'm a teenager ,I have everything I need
my dad would do anything for me,my mom is always
telling not to do stuff I really like, last week
she may me skip the dance try out she knows how
bad I wanted to be on the dance team ,last summer she
convinced me not to go at the cheerleading try out
I talk to many people they said I shoul think about why she does those things.I really starting to hate her she gets on my last nerves
I always said I'm not happy I always I never see
what I have,I constantly think about killing myself I never think positive I'm always sad
I want to have a boyfriend I constantly say I want,I want I don't like this country I miss my boyfriend my friend and my popular life here I'm nothing,although I have friends who truly love me. just surrounded by other races I want to go back I feel like I don't belong here I worry about every thing. I don't like myself even though I'm cute not ugly. I'm desperate for love I'm not a outgoing person I lock myself in my room now my dad is getting mad all the time about that .
I never show love to anybody.
what wrong with me ,what should I do
help me please.
thank you beyonda K
buckems answered Monday November 22 2004, 7:40 pm: Well i think one reason your mom doesnt want you do to a lot of things is because shes afraid to lose you. Also tryn just find a guy who you really like and just get into a good healthy relation ship! Do what ever makes you happy! Telk to your FATHER about this since he is the one who willlisten. hope i helped!! [ buckems's advice column | Ask buckems A Question ]
smart1 answered Monday November 22 2004, 7:15 pm: ok this is a tough one. but i know how you feel about your mom, because my mother did the same thing to me with cheerleading. she convinced me not to tryout this year, and now i really wish i had. you need tyo talk to your mom tell her what your goals are. let her know this stuff is bothering you. she can't read you mind. as far as killing yourself DON'T!!!!!! my favorite quote is if god brings you to it he will bring you throught it he will either lighten your load or strenghten your back. you will get throught this life will get better this is just a rough time for you and everybody has them. [ smart1's advice column | Ask smart1 A Question ]
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