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Question Posted Monday November 22 2004, 5:57 pm

whats tantric sex ? when you finally get an orgasm it'd be nice to keep it , how would u ride it out for like an hr. or so, so u have multiple orgasms?

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xcry4noguyx answered Monday November 22 2004, 9:06 pm:
wow...well, it has been said that an orgasm can last for up to an hour but its not real likely to happen. Here's what I found for tantric sex :
What Is Tantra?

Tantra is the total surrender, or letting go of all mental, emotional and cultural conditioning, so that universal life energy may flow through you like a river without any effort. It is a letting go to a universal oneness...to love. When fear is removed, Tantra remains. The word "Tantra" has many definitions, and perhaps its real meaning has been lost to antiquity.

Some say it comes from the Sanskrit or Hindi word for fabric or tapestry, meaning that it is woven into one's life. Others say that it comes from two Sanskrit words, Tanoti and Trayati Tanoti means to expand consciousness, and Trayati means to liberate consciousness. One might then say that Tantra expands and liberates consciousness.

The highest possible synthesis between love and meditation, Tantra is also the connection between the third dimension and other planes of existence beyond mere materiality. While not a religious philosophy, Tantra embraces a deep spiritual understanding of life, and an ancient art of living in harmony with existence. It is treating sexual energy as a friend, rather than something to be suppressed or talked about in low tones. It does not deny sex, or consider sex a hindrance to enlightenment or Heavenly Grace. To the contrary, Tantra is the only spiritual path which says that sex is sacred and not a sin. Tantrikas are God-loving rather than God-fearing.

There is a most beautiful word for sex in the Sanskrit language, and that is Kama which means sex/love together, undivided and indivisible. Most everyone is familiar with the classic Kama Sutra, the 7th Century Tantric scripture. Kama is also the name for the Hindu Goddess of love... and love is what Tantra encourages -- total love, including the mind, the spirit, and the body.

Let It All Go!

Tantra doesn't tell you to control your sexual urges to reach God, but rather the opposite. It supports the development of this vital energy to achieve union with Divinity. The essence of Tantra is the full expression of existence... a merging with, rather than a withdrawing from. It is the ultimate yoga which is Sanskrit for union. In Tantra, sexual energy is used as ignition for firing the Kundalini energy, the body's biological energy system, merging it/you with universal energy.

Unlike Taoism (which actually stemmed from ancient Tantra), that says bring your energy inside, Tantra says let it go...let it all go. There is no reason to hang on to anything if eternity and infinity exist.

In Tantra, sex is used as the cosmic union of opposites to create the polarity charge that connects with the primordial energy from which everything arises in the universe...the totality of All. We dance with the electromagnetic force field of our partner, and the dance leads to God/Cosmic Oneness.

The basic difference between unenlightened sexuality and Tantra is that Tantra declares "the kingdom of God is within your heart." In Sanskrit, it is called Punde So Brahmande, "the physical body is the temple of God, and the body is the replica or representation of the entire Cosmos."

Tantra says we can celebrate life when the idea of separation, or otherness, disappears from the body and mind, allowing people to meet on all levels of consciousness -- physical, vital, mental, intellectual, and spiritual. Sex becomes sacred and divine when you approach it from your heart and body, rather than from your mind. When that energy comes from a space deep within you -- your essential self -- it connects you to God/Goddess/All That Is... moving you into the realm of spirit!

I hope that helped you out.
Good luck,
Becca

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