My friend isn't very pretty, but she thinks shes really hott and acts slutty and makes out with like a bunch of guys and cheats on her boyfriends and I tried to stop her and i told her what she was doing was wrong, but she got mad at me. what should i do?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? sjcstar1361 answered Sunday November 21 2004, 3:36 pm: oh wow,
big situation. theres a bunch of things your need to try to do. if shes a great friend, be there for her, and try not to hang out with so many guys. i'm sure if shes a good friend, she will listen to you, i woudl try again. unless shes stopped, and if she did stop. then dont bother with it. DONT START RUMORS, what ever you do DONT START RUMORS...there could be something behind her thats makign her act like this..you never know. if she cheats on her boyfriends, and makes out witha bunch of guys, and you tried to stop her, then the best thing you can do. is keep explaining to her. you need to sit down and talk to her. face to face. and tell her you love her to death, and you jsut dont want her to have a reputation. reputations for that are horrible, maybe she doesnt know that you were tryign to be nice when you stopped her?and she probably got mad because you werent saying it in the nicest way. girls go crazy when her good friends tell her shes a slut, or shes ugly. its never good lol. but before you start to talk to her again, you NEEEEEEEED to make sure shes still doing it. and dont go by what people say. ask her yourself, but pretend like your not gunna have a talk with her after you ask her. but you have to make sure shes still doing it, it's gunna suck even worse if shes stopped, and your bringing back the past she probably knows that was doing wrong.
my advice is just to explain to her everything that you feel NICELY..she shoudl be understanding.
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