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CHARLES AND COREY Thing
I just wanted to let you know that the advice you gave me was EXCELLENT. You're right. I mean, I don't know what more too say. That's what I was planning on doing anyway. I mean no, If I was with Corey, Charles and I would be just friends, not friends with benifits.. I mean Charles is a good friend too me, and I feel that I should be in a relationship with him because I know he wont hurt me, he wont lie to me, and he doesn't love someone else. I mean I really like Corey, I'm just confused because I think I am better off as being friends with Charles. Do you know what I mean. Its strange I know, but I'm just not really clear with myself. I want to have a relationship with Corey more than I do Charles. Because I think that If I was with Charles, my life would be different around him because I'm so used to being friends with him. I wanted to hook up with him really bad in the past and then I realized that he liked someone else and that there wasn't a chance for me at all, so then I gave up on ''really'' wanting to be with him. (girlfriend) Which is why him and I are just good friends now.. to where I can tell him anything and he understands. He jokes around a lot and we have our moments where we think we hate each other, but I'm sure that this connection that I have with Charles is a friendship, and I don't want to ruin that because I'm comfortable with it. I know that I want to be with Corey, but what I'm not sure about that is, if I can trust Corey not to lie to me, if I can trust him to keep his real feelings for me and not someone else. I know its weird but I really do have some feelings for Corey that I don't think he understands. I think that he doesn't have the same feelings, I don't think that he wants to be with me like I want to be with him.. I mean he said something of the sort that we would see what happens when Dylan moved.. but I'm just scared that if I tell Corey that I still have some feelings left for Charles, that he wont feel the same for me as he does now, if he even still does. So, do you think you can help me out on this one? Do you think I should just be friends with both of them and try to find someone else, or tell Corey that I still have some feelings still for Charles, but I really want to be with him (Corey)? Corey and Charles are friends. They don't really hang out much anymore, but they are friends, and I don't think either one of them would really mind that I liked them both, I just don't want to stop being friends with Charles, and I don't want to not be able to have a relationship with Corey.. Please.. Help me out, I'm desperate to know..
Thanks,
CRYSTAL
P.S- When should I tell them both, if I even should. How do I tell them both, if I even should, What do I tell them both, If I even should... And please don't tell me that I have to think about what to say to them on my own, I need some help on how to do it.. I'm just scared of both of their reactions.. because I don't know how Charles really feels about me, if he thinks I'm a good friend, or if he likes me like I do Corey.. thats my biggest problem.. Will you please find a way to help.. please!
Oh and yes, I'm really seriouse about being with Corey, and you're right, I want him to be seriouse to, I don't just want him to say this to make me want him more, and then in the end, say he doesn't like me..
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i think that you and Charles are JUST really good friends and i think that to you it seemed like there were feelings there because you arent used to having a guy friend that you can tell so much to, i know how you feel i have been in that situation. but Corey on the other hand, i think you really like him. When you talk to Corey you should tell him exactly what you told him, that you serious about it and you really wanna be with him to see how well things work out and it doesnt really seem like he wants to be with you as much as you want to be with him...almost as if you are putting more into the relationship than he is even though theres not really a 'relationship' there yet. things may seem confusing to you but to me it sounds like everything is going pretty go all you need to do is realize that Charles is just a really good friend who will always be there and you need to start telling Corey how you really feel! i think everything will work out just fine!
good luck i hope i helped!
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