Everyone's heard the saying "love hurts" but we are not even in a relationship and my feelings are hurt. I really like a good friend of mine. I wouldn't call it "love" because of course, I'm not old enough to know what that really feels like but its a crush that I would like to make a relationship. We talk alot on AIM and at school too. I seem to not be as comfortable around him since I started "liking" him and its really weakening our friendship. Also, I've been having a tough time with two of my best friends who like him and he hasn't been making it any better. I mean, he's been making kind of rude comments like they are my only friends and its hurting my feelings. I think he's saying that only because he thinks we're just friends. I'm so confused and I need some help. What's a girl to do?!
canch90 answered Saturday November 20 2004, 5:06 pm: i know how u feel... alot of my guy friends i always end up liking. i think we do this because we like them for who they are.. thats why u werer friends in the first place. then u start to like them even more because u guyz have so much in common.. just try to keep it at the friendship level and nothing else. also if u want ask him how he feels about ur friends to see if he likes them or not. if not... then u have nothing to worry about. [ canch90's advice column | Ask canch90 A Question ]
MiSz_LaDii_L answered Friday November 19 2004, 10:38 pm: well it seems to me that hes not that interestedd in you like you are in him because if he were he wouldnt be making rude comments like that in which hurt your feelings besides dont tell a boy ruin your friendship boy come and go but friends dont...you should also tell him how you feel towards him...hopes this helps [ MiSz_LaDii_L's advice column | Ask MiSz_LaDii_L A Question ]
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