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i have this friend he seems like his life will never have any change. so one night he went out with some friends and they took him to a party.now at this party he had a little drink.also at this party was a girl who he liked.she had been there for a while now and has had a lot to drink.he had only been drinking for a little bit so hes not drunk yet.he decided to make a change in his life and decided to do the unthinkable he took advantage of her.a few weeks later he found out she was pregnet.he doesnt want to tell his parents because he is afraid.the girl doesnt know that it was him either.even if he doesnt tell anyone the test results later will prove that it is his kid. what should he do? thanks now please help!!!!! *unknowen*
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This friend of your should confront the girl. If he doesnt end up telling the gurl that it was him, then he is not making things easy on her part when she has to tell her parents of the news. Her parents will think low of her and think she goes around sleeping with all these guys.. As for the guy friend he should tell his parents. He might not like what they will say but they will understand and make him live up to his responsiblities. Keeping this news from his parents and from the gurl that is pragnent shows he is not responsible and is running from his problems. He cant run, he must face the truth. Tell him not to be scared of his parents, just confront them but make sure to tell them that he understands that he must help support the child. That he will fulfill his duties as the father. He must also confront the gurl, just tell her that it was him and that he is sorry and that he will help her. If he truely cares he will help her out and not run out on her because going through pregnancy on your own may be difficult. It's always nice to know someone is there for you.
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