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Hey! I'm a sophmore at Park High. My friend, !star!! told me about this website. I have been told by my friends that I am a good listener and give out good advice. Feel free to ask me anything and make it as long as you want!And I will do wut I can to give you the best advice. DONT WORRY UR SECRET IS SAFE WIT ME! Feel free to ask anything because no one knows who you are but you! I dont even know who I am giving advice to! DONT WORRY EVERYTHING IS SAFE HERE!
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E-mail: shorthunnie07@hotmail.com Gender: Female Location: Cottage Grove, MN Age: 15 Member Since: November 16, 2004 Answers: 3 Last Update: November 19, 2004 Visitors: 1273
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hey my friend did what u told him to do now he is alone because the girl ran away and had an abortion and now i think he is going to kill him self.i had tryed to help but think its not working and i got this call saying hes missing.
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I'm sorry i could talk to you soon! hopefully you get this! The girl probably became scared and didnt know what to do. You must find your friend! Suicide isnt the answer! Think of where he might be! When you find him you must calm him down.. Let him know that it wasnt his fault she got an abortion.. That was her choice and all he was doing was tryin to help her out. He was tryin to be responible about the problem. Tell him just because she got an abortion doesnt mean that he didnt try. She chose to get rid of the baby and all he could do was offer her help. Unfortunately she became scared and ran away maybe because she didnt want her parents to get upset with her. Talk him through this.. He must know that it isnt his fault that she got rid of the child.. He was only doing what was right! I hope i got to you fast enough and I am sorry I couldnt get to you sooner! Find your friend and talk him through this... He is just scared that he may have caused her to run away and get an abortion but he didnt cause it! It was her choice! LEt him know you care and are there for him to get through this. FIND HIM AND CALM HIM DOWN! LET HIM KNOW HE DID WHAT WAS RIGHT BUT SHE GOT SCARED... He is just scared that he caused her pain.. Let him know you are there to help him through this hardship!
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Hey i have a boyfriend hes really nice and i really love him but he doesnt listen to alot of things.. i think its selctive hearing and half the time i can never get his attention.. what should i do?
How long have you and your boyfriend been together? A lot of guys are basically the same.. DO they ever listen! LOL! Try talking to him. Next time you are talking to him and he isnt listening to you, ask him what was on his mind and if he is purposely ignoring you. Confront him about how you dont like the fact that he ignores you. By him ignoring you, it will only bring anger into your relationship and that isnt always for the best. You can work around his selective hearing. Try telling him that you dont like the fact that he ingores you sometimes. Tell him how it makes you feel when you have to repeat yourself twice, he will then take it into consideration when you are talking next time to give you his full attention. Be honest with him. A relationship should always have honesty and without honesty what kind of relationship do you have? BE completely honest with him and he should understand where you are coming from. Dont be scare to be honest! Its always good to have honesty and in this case be honest about how you are feeling when he isnt listening to you.
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i have this friend he seems like his life will never have any change. so one night he went out with some friends and they took him to a party.now at this party he had a little drink.also at this party was a girl who he liked.she had been there for a while now and has had a lot to drink.he had only been drinking for a little bit so hes not drunk yet.he decided to make a change in his life and decided to do the unthinkable he took advantage of her.a few weeks later he found out she was pregnet.he doesnt want to tell his parents because he is afraid.the girl doesnt know that it was him either.even if he doesnt tell anyone the test results later will prove that it is his kid. what should he do? thanks now please help!!!!! *unknowen*
This friend of your should confront the girl. If he doesnt end up telling the gurl that it was him, then he is not making things easy on her part when she has to tell her parents of the news. Her parents will think low of her and think she goes around sleeping with all these guys.. As for the guy friend he should tell his parents. He might not like what they will say but they will understand and make him live up to his responsiblities. Keeping this news from his parents and from the gurl that is pragnent shows he is not responsible and is running from his problems. He cant run, he must face the truth. Tell him not to be scared of his parents, just confront them but make sure to tell them that he understands that he must help support the child. That he will fulfill his duties as the father. He must also confront the gurl, just tell her that it was him and that he is sorry and that he will help her. If he truely cares he will help her out and not run out on her because going through pregnancy on your own may be difficult. It's always nice to know someone is there for you.
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