Question Posted Thursday November 18 2004, 5:39 pm
Hey i have a boyfriend hes really nice and i really love him but he doesnt listen to alot of things.. i think its selctive hearing and half the time i can never get his attention.. what should i do?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? XOsweetheartXO answered Thursday November 18 2004, 5:56 pm: How long have you and your boyfriend been together? A lot of guys are basically the same.. DO they ever listen! LOL! Try talking to him. Next time you are talking to him and he isnt listening to you, ask him what was on his mind and if he is purposely ignoring you. Confront him about how you dont like the fact that he ignores you. By him ignoring you, it will only bring anger into your relationship and that isnt always for the best. You can work around his selective hearing. Try telling him that you dont like the fact that he ingores you sometimes. Tell him how it makes you feel when you have to repeat yourself twice, he will then take it into consideration when you are talking next time to give you his full attention. Be honest with him. A relationship should always have honesty and without honesty what kind of relationship do you have? BE completely honest with him and he should understand where you are coming from. Dont be scare to be honest! Its always good to have honesty and in this case be honest about how you are feeling when he isnt listening to you. [ XOsweetheartXO's advice column | Ask XOsweetheartXO A Question ]
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