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Question Posted Thursday November 18 2004, 4:51 pm

okay..me and this guy are supposed to be like freinds with benefits..like we both want to be it and stuff..but whenever we hang out i freeze cause i liked him for like 6 years..and i hate like throwing myself at a guy cuz im not like that kind of girl..so i wanted to know like what sort of things could i do to get him to make the first move..and like what could i do to let him no i wanna do it..or how could i make the first move..like should i hold his hand or what? thanks so much.xoxo

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mandie answered Thursday November 18 2004, 10:39 pm:
well...have you and this guy like actually talked about being friends with benefits? or is it just like 'oh..yea..6 years..we gotta be fwb' b/c if he doesn't know..hes not gonna try anything..

does he know you've liked him for 6 years? b/c that could be like a "woah" signal or something..meaning that he might think your semi-obbsessed or what-not..

most of all..hes feeling the same way you are..(most likely) hes wondering in the back of his head "should i kiss her?" or wishing that you'd kiss him..

now this is just me..coz i'm the type that talks things out..you need to talk to him..make sure you BOTH know ya'll are fwb and talk about limits..(you don't wanna turn out to be a whore) and after that see how things change..

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