well ok..i understand that they might not like me..but why would they like totally act like it.and talk to me..and always point out to me.. for something corny..or refer to me?.i just dont understand guys..ya know..i know there are more important better things to think about and not guys..
but this happend also before in 7th grade..and this kid was like WHOA!..i danced with him at the dance..and kinda talked to him..on a slow song..and that was sweet. and he would always look at me..and tell my friends he liked me..but then ..since we didnt talk to each other..( we were both shy?) we never went out..and he went out with this other girl..but he knew me and my mom..and talked to my mom alot..and stuff like that..
so i mean..even if they look at me in a certain way?..sry if i'm asking ya questions..but i just gotta get it straight...yea..i guess that would make me a confused person..with horrible love life at the moment cuz i moved..
but i talk to one of the guys..and hes really nice..and he looks at me..but i mean why is it like on and off..mayube he likes somebody else ?..or not even me..just sometimes?. should i just ask him?..i dont know..
thanks..for advice..
tkd_shorty
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? PuReLuVeR143 answered Sunday November 14 2004, 10:37 pm: I know how u feel trust me.. Okay theres this book out there called, "He's just not that into you."... I dunno who its by but I had read it a while ago, and girl it helped me so much. Ive never read a book that helped me that much. Basically, it explains that if a guy is REALLY into you, or atleast SOMEWHAT into you, he will DEFINITELY make the effort to ask you out on a date, or talk to you even more, etc.. They could totally think your a cutie that has a nice body, etcetc, but just not be that into you. Guys are TOTALLLYYYY strange i know. They will look, smile, etc but when it comes around to it, they will never initiate anything! I hate it... Keep talking to the guy who tries to talk to you.. BUT you gotta let him ask you out, etc..And if he doesnt, it really just wasnt meant to be.. You could go through your whole teenage life not having a bf, but u know what that means? It only means that you are gunna receive the most loving husband on Earth.. Youll get him because you have had patience through out your teen life.. With these guys, i really dont think they are, quote that into you..atleast from what you are saying.. In the book I told you about, it also says how we girls always make up excuses for the guys who wont call us, etc, to make ourselves feel better.. For ex, you go out on a date with a guy and he says hell call u the next day, but a week passes and he never does..what do we girls always say? ''oh he prolly got sick.." or " hes really busy!" u know what I mean.. Even if a guy is really busy or is too shy, etc, if he is interested he WILL make a big effort, even if he is shy.. i really hope this helped somewhat..
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