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My best friend


Question Posted Friday November 12 2004, 9:29 pm

I've got a best friend that i truly think i am around too much. We have a fabulous bond and NO ONE could tear us apart but.. Idk why but i feel like i'm interfering with her own life. She says im not but i really feel like i am. Tonight we hung out the whole night..but i felt like i was follower of hers. She is amazing and i love her to death but i just feel like sometimes she gets sick of me. I have no idea what to say to her, she isn't one of those girls who ever get caught up in drama. I love that about her..we are like super close and i truly feel i'm holding her back from things. I`m not very sure what im doing but i know i am. I just feel i am keeping her away from the world because i've known her the longest out of all her "new" friends. I really don't want to loose our friendship AT ALL! but it's just so different now that she is becoming better friends with all of my friends who i have known forever. I feel like i am being sort of replaced. =\

- Unfabulous


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x3_Beautiful_Letdown_xOx answered Friday November 12 2004, 9:55 pm:
Unfabulous--

Thats how a lot of people feel right now. You have a best friend, that you dont necessarily want to "share" with other people. But then again, sometimes you feel that when you hang out with them, you start to follow her. Dont think of yourself as being "replaced".. the reason your her BEST friend is that your willing to let her hang out with other people as well as yourself. But dont bring yourself down and keep thinking she's getting annoyed with you, because if shes your best friend, you'll be the first to know if your being annoying. And dont worry, if someone was getting sick of you, you would know. But maybe, a little time apart is the best thing.. then you will see that you guys are best friends, and she will soon realize that she needs you to always be around her.. hope i helped.

xOx. aLy .xOx

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