Heyy its aly.. im not vey good at this adivce stuff, but maybe i can help you. I go to bjh i play volleyball, basketball.. and whatever else. So ask me QuEsTiOnS.. CuZ ThaTs wHaT tHe kooL KiDs Do =)
E-mail: bjhvolleybabe121@sbcglobal.net
Gender: Female
Location: BeDfoRd teXaS
Age: 13
AIM: TheQuiznoSub17
Member Since: November 11, 2004
Answers: 9
Last Update: November 13, 2004
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Okay so there's this guy I really like, but not as much as I used too. And he dosen't have a girlfriend but he's like obcessed about this one girl.. and I used to go out with him last year but I broke up with him. I don't know what to do.. I wanna get over him so bad and I told my friends I have but in a way I still REALLY like him and need him to be there for me. And it dosen't help that we're not as good of friends that we used to be..
~Chinese Chicken. (link)
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Chinese chicken--
Guys are really confusing.. Its extreamly hard to get over someone that you really like. As the years go by, some of your guy friends are going to slowly fade away. I had a best friend in 1st grade and it stayed that way til 3rd grade. He was so awesome.. but then i started to realize that he changed and he wasn't the person i thought he was. Sometimes having a guy as a friend is even better then having him as a boyfriend. Because you can tell him anything, and you can't always tell a guy something when your going out with him. Try to tell him that you want to stay friends and how awesome he is. Hopefully he wont start to fade away.. but even if he does, you still have all of your friends here. And don't be worried if you cant get over him quickly.. its hard. So hopefully you guys stay friends =).. hope i helped.
aly
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I really like this guy at school. I know he used to like me, atleast thats what someone said. Anyways, he has a gf, but i still really like him. He already knows but i cant get over him. I dont know what to do. He's awesome and is funny! Can you help me? Thanks
~a friend (link)
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a friend--
Its hard to get over a guy that you really like, especially when he used to like you. Sometimes, no matter how hard you try, you just cant get over him. The only way to get over someone that you are pretty much in love with is to hopefully find someone else. Its going to be really really hard, but i know its possible. Be glad that you have him as a friend.. thats always more fun then having him as a boyfriend =)
-aly
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I've got a best friend that i truly think i am around too much. We have a fabulous bond and NO ONE could tear us apart but.. Idk why but i feel like i'm interfering with her own life. She says im not but i really feel like i am. Tonight we hung out the whole night..but i felt like i was follower of hers. She is amazing and i love her to death but i just feel like sometimes she gets sick of me. I have no idea what to say to her, she isn't one of those girls who ever get caught up in drama. I love that about her..we are like super close and i truly feel i'm holding her back from things. I`m not very sure what im doing but i know i am. I just feel i am keeping her away from the world because i've known her the longest out of all her "new" friends. I really don't want to loose our friendship AT ALL! but it's just so different now that she is becoming better friends with all of my friends who i have known forever. I feel like i am being sort of replaced. =\
- Unfabulous (link)
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Unfabulous--
Thats how a lot of people feel right now. You have a best friend, that you dont necessarily want to "share" with other people. But then again, sometimes you feel that when you hang out with them, you start to follow her. Dont think of yourself as being "replaced".. the reason your her BEST friend is that your willing to let her hang out with other people as well as yourself. But dont bring yourself down and keep thinking she's getting annoyed with you, because if shes your best friend, you'll be the first to know if your being annoying. And dont worry, if someone was getting sick of you, you would know. But maybe, a little time apart is the best thing.. then you will see that you guys are best friends, and she will soon realize that she needs you to always be around her.. hope i helped.
xOx. aLy .xOx
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ok. well. there are these two boys.Mike and Kevin. i am going out with Mike. but i really really really really really and so many more reallys am starting to like Kevin, who told me they needed me. and Mike is always staring at this one girl,Dana M, and is all over her all the time. and i dont know what to do because i also kevin, and we brake up, im going to like Mike again, and i did this to him last year. and i dont think i can do that to him again.and everyone is saying its not fair to mike, but im going to still like him and i dont know what to do. please please please help and give me reasons and explaine. thanks so much
- MarissA
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marissa-
Alright well i went through the same thing. I was going out with this kid michael. And broke up with him because i liked this other kid. And i totally regret it now. Michael has a girlfriend, and they have been going out for 5 months now, and i cant do anything about it. Even though you like kevin, You and Mike are still together. And trust me, boys always stare a girls so dont take it personally or whatnot. Be glad that you have Mike right now.. and im sure You will soon realize that Kevin is just as good as a friend, as he would have been if you were going out with him.. But seriously, Stay together with Mike.. i dont want you going through that same things that i had to go through.. its not fun. Hopefully i helped
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Alright well there is this boy that i have known forever, he is like my best friend and i don't want to ruin the bond we have, but i am recklessly, helplessly, in love with him [if you could even call it love at this young age]. But he just started to go out with this girl that he doesn't even know, and it bugs me because she is so not the person for him. She is punk-rock/gothic kinda girl..and he's a football player, wrestler, and plays baseball. They hardly know eachother and i really want him to like me. I just wish he felt the same way. Our families are super close so i don't want to interfere with that but i can't help it. I have no idea what to do about this. If you could help me that would be greatly appreciated =]!! What should i do?!?!
-Accidently In-Love (link)
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accidently in love--
Whenever you get a good chance to talk to him, let him know what you think about this girl he is going out with. He sounds like he's a really close friend that will listen to you. But i can't promise that he's going to be very happy when you try to explain it to him, but someone has to tell him. And plus, if and when they brake up, he will remember who told him that it wouldnt work out. And that person would be -you-.. and maybe he will start to appeciate the things you do more often, and that could lead to other things ;).. lol. And about how much you like him.. Its hard enough to be in love with one of your best friends, let alone like them when they're taken. If its really meant to be, it'll happen. Give him and yourself some time. Everything will turn out ok. Hopefully i helped you..
-aLy-
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Hey well... I have this friend and she is usually really energetic and happy and almost always in a good mood, but lately, she's been really down. I ask her whats wrong quite often, but then she says that if she wanted me to know, she would tell me. And like yesterday she said that she could talk to me about anything. So I don't know what to do. And then she goes and writes in her profile how some certain people always make her feel better and how they give her such good advice, and I keep wanting to know what's bugging her so that I can help her out with her problems, and yeah... You see my problem. I'm really confused.
-all I want to do is help. (link)
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all i want to do is help--
Theres not much else to do.. You told her that your always here for her, and that she can always talk to you about anything.. but maybe just some things need to be left to herself, or maybe she just doesn't know how to tell you. Keep reminding her that your here for her, not enough to make her annoyed, but enough to make her reaize that you are there for her. She will soon realize that she has friends that care about her, and she will soon start telling you whats bugging her more often. (( i hope.. lol )) Hopefully i helped a little bit.
-aLy
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Hey aly.
well you see, there is this guy. and i have liked him for a long time. and hes told me he likes me, but it doesnt seem like he does. and he calls almost everynight to talk to me. and i really like that. and i think hes like.. PeRfEct for me. not ike it really matters when ur in junior high. nut i still really like him. and.. i can always be myself around him and i dont want to ask him anythign about wheather he likes me or not, because i do not want him to think that i am annoying. so.. i dont know what to do about anything right now...
-...uh-non-uh-MESS
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uh-non-uh-MESS--
I know this probably sounds like your everyday answer or whatnot. But tell him how you feel. Weather or not he thinks your annoying. Tell him what you just told me. Tell him that you can always be yourself around him and its hard to do that around other guys. If he cares enough to call you everynight, he should care about your feelings. =)And if things don't turn out good.. you always have your friends around.. trust me, they really come in handy.. and plus, i'll ALWAYS be here.. Hopefully i helped a little bit.
-aLy
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nobody likes me. and when i say nobody..i mean NOBODY! i might as well just give up. maybe i was supposed to have a birth defect. maybe i was supposed to die. you might guess who this is, but oh well. (link)
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Hmm.. i think i have a feeling who this is, but i wont say anything. There's a lot of people out there who likes you. Im sure of that. Whoever doesn't like you, is a fag. People shouldn't care how you look, or whatnot. Its like that quote..
iiTs FuNNi hOw PoePeL caN sitll raed thsi even thuogh TeH LeTTrEs aRe MeSSeD uP.. iiTs CuZ TeH hUmeN BraIn OnyL FoCuSEs oN TeH fIrsT nD Lats leTTrEs oF tEh WrOd. iiTs JuSt LiKe BeaUty.. People Only focus on the o u t s i d e_
Trust me.. people like you. And if you ever did die.. school would most definitly be different. If you ever need to talk.. im here. Hope i helped a little..
-aLy-
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I really like this boy. But he doesn't like me. I've tried everything to get him to like me but nothin seems to matter. Now we are really good friends. Almost best friends. So i don't want to do anything stupid and mess up the friendship that we have right now. But i don't think anyone understands how hard i am trying to get him to like me. Will he ever notice me?
-Terribly in love (link)
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Terribly in Love--
You're going through almost the excact same thing i am going through this very moment. You see him as a boyfriend, and he see's you as a friend. It's hard to go through things like this.. but maybe, being friends is even better then a relationship. I don't know about you, but im friend's with a very special person.. and i know for a fact, that we have so much fun hanging out, that its probably better this way, then going out.All i can say is be yourself, and maybe things will turn out good. But be thankful that you have this special someone as a friend. =).. Hope i helped you.
-aLy
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