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PLEASE NEED HELP , FRIEND WITH BULIMIA


Question Posted Thursday November 11 2004, 3:33 am

I HAVE A FRIEND WITH BULIMIA, I JUST FOUND OUT
AND I TALKED WITH HER ABOUT IT. SHE SAID SHE WOULD STOP BUT IM NOT SHURE THAT SHE WILL.
MY QUESTION IS FOR PEOPLE WHO HAVE HAD ANOREXIA OR BULIMIA: IS THERE ANYTHING THAT ANYBODY COULD HAVE SAID? OR DONE ANYTHING TO MAKE YOU STOP DOING IT, ANYTHING AT ALL? WHAT CAN I TELL HER ABOUT IT?
SHE IS SO BEATUYFULL AND I CANT JUST SIT BACK AND WATCH HER WITHER AWAY AND DIE. I THINK I MAY BE IN LOVE WITH HER AND THIS IS JUST DEVISTATING TO ME.
HER BULIMIA STEMS FROM HER FIRST BOYFRIEND AND LOVE, HE ABUSED HER PHISICALY AND MENTALY.
HE WOULD TELL HER THAT SHE WAS UGLY AND FAT AND THAT NO ONE ELSE WOULD EVER WANT TO BE WITH HER.
ALSO HER PARANTS WOULD MAKE COMENTS TO HER TO TRY AND MAKE HER LOOSE WEIGHT. THEY WOULD TELL HER THAT SHE HAD A FAT ASS AND THAT SHE SHOULDINT EAT SO MUCH.
BACK IN JANUARY OF 2004 SHE WAS 190 LBS AND ABOUT 5'-5" TALL, NOW SHE IS 140 LBS.
I KEEP TELLING HER SHE LOOKS SOOOO GOOD, BUT SHE SAYS THAT WHEN SHE LOOKS IN THE MIRROR SHE DOES NOT SEE HER SELF LIKE THAT, AND THAT IM ONLY SAYING THAT TO MAKE HER FEEL BETTER, AND THAT SHE ONLY SEES HER SELF AS BEING UGLY AND FAT.
IF YOU WENT THROUGH THIS, PLEASE HELP ME SAVE MY FRIEND.

THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR YOUR HELP
-CHUCK


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