alright so i hooked up with this guy this one night..and i didnt know him at all.he was my best friends boyfriends bestfriend...and he doesnt talk to me at school.and i just think its all very ackward..what should i do?>
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? XoLiLmsYaNkeeOx answered Wednesday November 10 2004, 7:40 am: yea, that can be very awkward when you hook up with somebody and then barely talk to them again. do you try talking to him? if you don't, then maybe the feelining is mutual. maybe he thinks you are the one not talking to him. or he thinks its just a one time thing and wont ever happen again, and doesnt want to bring it up. as much as that sucks, guys can be big buttholes with stuff like that, and yes, they do hook up with a girl and then drop her like a hot potato. OR he could really like you, and is embarrassed and doesnt know how to talk to you. if thats the case, why don't you try being the one to start the conversations and flirt with him. how about doing that not just for that case.. but talk and flirt with him anyway. if your'e really into this guy.. you'll get your message across. and how fun would it be for all of you to double date? after all, your all best friends! give it one more shot, and if it doesnt work out, it simply was just a hookup and wasnt meant to be. dont stress.. theres plenty more guys out there who would love to be with you. [ XoLiLmsYaNkeeOx's advice column | Ask XoLiLmsYaNkeeOx A Question ]
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