My mom is pregnant and its kinda making her be in a bad mood all the time. And she takes all her anger out on me and everytime something goes wrong she blames it on me. Everytime I try to talk to her she says I am making her mad and that i am hurting the baby...How can I get her to understand that it aint my fault?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Families? AdInA answered Tuesday November 9 2004, 10:26 pm: Wow. i had to go thru the same ol thing .. TWICE! i kno exactly how u r feeling!! ya kno, nothin u say is going to change the way shes acting rite now that she is pregnant. i remember.. right after my mom had her baby and after i talked to her about the way she treated me she was like "im so sorry for treating you badly wen i was pregnant.. it was my hormones. i promise i wont treat you like that again.. even if i have another baby." and op she had another one! and while she was pregnant of him, she acted the way she said she wouldnt act. next time she overreacts wen u try to talk to her, tell her you arent trying to get her mad, and that you just want to communicate with her without her freaking out. and tell her it isnt fair that she blames her hormones on you, because it isnt your fault. just tell her how you are feeling.. but sometimes even that wont help any. you are probably just going to have to wait those long 9 months. :/ [ AdInA's advice column | Ask AdInA A Question ]
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