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overattached boyfriend
i have been going out w/ my bf for like 2 weeks now. he always tells me how much he loves me and how we should stay together forever, and its really starting to bug me! i feel bad, but everytime the phone rings i dread that its him and im going to have to talk to him! i want to break up with him, but he just bought me this really expensive necklace, after i told him not to. i still want to break up with him though, im not happy with him at all anymore and its not fair to either of us. he goes to another school too. im 14 if that helps. what should i say to him? thanks!
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alright, i have to say i've sort of been in your situation before. i dated my best friend for a short period of time, and then he started to get very clingy. and yes, we'd both talk about our future, but then it got to the point where I felt like I was put too far on a pedestal and I didn't want to be there anymore. He bought me something really expensive for my birthday, but I wouldn't accept it... and I also told him I didn't want to stay in the relationship. It was something I needed to do for myself.
If you feel the way that I did, my suggestion is to take a break from him. He's getting very clingy very fast, and you're 14. This is too early for anyone to be planning the future. Hang in there hun. Do NOT worry about how he feels if you need to break up with him... do it for yourself. Respect yourself and your emotions. And... if the necklace bothers you, give it back to him.
Hang in there, and PLEASE keep me updated. Good luck hun. Feel free to leave me any messages. Mwah
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