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3 months wasn't enough.
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A little over a year ago I started dating Alex. She was everything I ever wanted in a girl...and then some. For 9 months I enjoyed the best relationship I had ever shared with anyone. I loved her more than anything...
Over last summer she had to go to South Carolina for a month. We talked a few times on the phone while she was there. She wished me a happy birthday when it came, and during the last week she was there she told me how excited she would be to see me again.
When she finally came home early August, she told me she was too tired to see me when she had just gotten back. I understood; she had been on a couple of planes since 5 in the morning and in a car as well.
And we didn't see each other for a whole week.
And at the end of that week, she broke up with me.
During those next three months we spent a bit of time together anyway. There were times when we would snuggle up, and we even kissed a few times. For a while, it had felt like nothing had changed. But for the last couple of weeks, we had both been too busy and I did not have the option to go see her. I decided that it was pathetic to refuse to date other people just because of the slim opportunity she might take me back. I decided to get over it and just stop trying.
She had asked me a while back to look for a couple games for her, and I had found and bought one. I just wanted the chance to take it to her. A couple nights ago I went over there and gave it to her, and hung around for a while. I really wasn't very happy while I was there...being at her house made me feel too nostalgic and brought back too many memories. I told her "just being here makes me depressed...I'm going to go." She called my name as I walked out the door, and I turned back and said weakly, "I love you."
I went to my car and sat in the seat for a minute. And then I started to cry. It's all I could do. After I realized that I would not be able to drive since I could not see, I went back inside and cried on her shoulder. She comforted me as she always does.
3 months after the breakup and it's still obvious I am not over her. No matter where I am or what I am doing, I think about her. I have never loved anyone like I have her. Forgetting about her is not an option. I haven't been able to date other people yet. I have told her how I feel. What else is left?
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aww im sorry what you're going through. i went through something like that, but its different cause im only 14 but i can totally relate. i liked this guy for like half a year and was obsessed with him, i thought i was in love. but now he's all over me and i dont like him. and i thought i'd never get over him, ok so maybe you can see what im trying to say. you shouldn't think about her too much. have fun, meet new people, go out, hey, you never know she might get jealous and realize how much she wants you back. but dont be around her toom uch. show her you have a life. its not easy to forget about her, you don't have to. just try to get other things on your mind. if she sees that you like her a lot as in you'll do anything for her, she'll take advantage. just try and do your best, have fun! trust me you'll get over her, maybe not right away but you will. good luck, tell me how things go. * xo - angie * =)
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there is nothing to do now. just let time pass and see new people. its the best thing for u. stay away from her! when u think about what u guys had be happy that u got to be with someone so great. but talking to new people is the best thing.
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Aww! Hun all you can do is ask her how she feels towards you. She obviously knows how you feel now, and you CAN'T get over her. That's completely understandable, and very tough at the same time! Ask her if you will ever have another chance with her. I was also wondering if you knew why she broke up with you? Just find out from her what HER feelings are. Goodluck with everything!:]
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U seem really sweet. I think that if she doesn't like u back then u should try and move on. But i also kno that millions of ppl can say that but it's not going to change ur feelings. See if she wants to give it another shot. if she does that's great if she doesn't therare plenty of other people who would LOVE to go out with u.
Hope it works out.
~Reenie~
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U seem like an incredible person and i thinkthat if she doesn't like you, then she's not worth being crazy over. But i kno that just saying that isn't gonna change ur feelings. I think you should talk to her about getting back together. If she doesn't, she's being an idiot b/c there's no reason not to like you. But if she doesn't, u just need to try to forget her and move on.
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get over it.
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