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Confused... I've got guy troubles, of course.


Question Posted Monday November 1 2004, 7:56 pm

Alright, I'm a 13 year old female, in the 8th grade. There's this guy I really like... he's smart, gets way good grades (like the only guy I've liked who gets better grades, haha) athletic, nice, popular. I could go on, but let me get to the point. I've liked him for about 2 months now, and I keep thinking he likes me. I've heard 2 people say he does. So a few days ago, lots of my friends found out, since we were playing truth or dare, and everyone was like "Aww, how sweet you like so-and-so." And most of them seemed to think that he likes me too, but I'm not really sure anymore. Today at school one of my friends who found out totally wanted to tell him I liked him, and then I saw her go over and talk to him... She said that she had asked if he liked me, and he said yes. I was like, in a sarcastic way, right? But she said no that he was serious. I find that hard to believe though. So then she said he should ask me out and he's like, why, so I can face rejection again? And my friend was all, well maybe. Ugh I was sorta mad cuz she pretty much made it obvious I like him. I'm just wondering what I should do.. should I tell him I like him or what?!! I'm just worried that if I do he won't like me back and then things will be weird between us. And if he does like me, and we decide to go out.. well that worries me a little bit too because I heard that he's sort of perverted, he just doesn't show it as much as other guys. And the only thing I've ever done is hug guys. I'm willing to go as far as kissing/making out but I think my parents would freak if they found out. Arrgh.. please help! Sorry it's so long.

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Sherry answered Monday November 1 2004, 11:18 pm:
She already made it obvious you like him, so then I think you should just tell him! He already sorta knows, you just have to confirm it:) Just be like "Hey___ I really like you, your a cool guy" Now maybe your thinking "omg is sherry on crack I could never just tell him that" Well, thats the only way to make sure he knows for sure. Yeah your friends can give him hints, and tell him but he really, truly knows for sure when you tell him. Its not that hard to tell guys, well before it is..your heart starts beating, you sweat a little..its nerve racking but once its done, its done and you feel good. I told a guy I liked him, and I experienced like a heart attack but after I told him i was so happy, even though I didnt get the response I wanted. So what I'm saying is, tell him no matter how nervous you are. If you want a friend to go with you, then you could do that. You need to tell this guy your feelings, and if he doesnt say anything right away..thats ok! He'll probably think about what you said the rest of the day/week and talk to you about it if he likes you or wants to get to know you better. If he doesnt seem intrested, thats ok too. Your 13, lots of times your heart will be broken, lots of times you'll be in love..so if hes not into you...find a new guy. And I dont know about you, but I find different guys to like fast. Because guys are so hott! l0l! Good luck and if you need any more help..ask me!!!

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