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its quite long..but very important..i need MAJOR advice ASAP
i live with my grandparents and they went to a city about twenty miles away from where we lived and they were supost to be there for quite a long time. well they took one truck and left our newest one at home, and my brother who is 17, and doesnt live with me, stopped by and we were hangin out and stuff and he had this brilliant idea to take their NEW chevy silverado out for a lil cruise, and so i said sure go ahead but i aint goin cause that truck was like my gpas pride n joy and he doesnt trust my brother with his possesions cause he has a bad history of "stealing, and wreckless driving" and i knoew if my brother got caught he would be in sum BIG trouble lol so i decided to stay..and he left for a bit and he came back, well he wanted me to go so i called my gma with an excuse to see hwo long she was gon be so she wouldnt come back while we were gone and she said she was still gon be gon for atleast and hour or so so we were safe to go, and my brother and his persuasion led me to go with him this time and of course he was speeding, doin donuts, squeeling tires, being the rebel that he is. then he brought me down to where we used to live when i was a baby and he was tellin me a story bout how we used to catch butterflies togther..etc. and so he was backin out of our old houses' drive and while he was talkin n not paying attention he backed into a streetlight/pole thing. and so my grandpas NEW truck had a HUGE dent from the inpact in the side and the bumper was broken. so we hauled ass home, and we were thinkin up excuses, lies, stories, and anything else to say, well we finally got a lie to say, which was we left for a bit adn when we came back we noticed the dent, so we called my gma, (lying) and todl her the fake story she was upset and my granpa was furious, well they told us to call the cops, and we didnt want to at all cause we were the ones who actually did it. but we did todl them the fake story too and they came and checked it out, well my gma came home looked at it and teh fake skid marks my bro made in teh mud with his shoes and were suspicious, well unfortunatley our story wasnt very successful, two of our neighbors told my gma they saw the truck leave...but they didnt see is in it, and there were many things in the truck wrong and misplaced that also was a dead giveaway. but any who, we are still denying it and denying it and playing dumbfounded and keeping our mouths closed but i want to know wut u think i should do alicia. so please get back to me i know its very long but i am in a bad situation and need desperate help, btw- my gparents woudl kill us if they foudn out that their "13 yr old angel" (haha yea right) was lying and stole their truck so please please please get back to me asap
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This is a very important lesson that EVERYONE has to learn growing up: actions have consequences. You knew what the right thing to do was. You made a bad decision and now you have to face up to it. Its not easy! Of course not. And there will be consequences, but maybe if you come clean on your own your grandparents will show a LITTLE mercy. Of course they're going to be mad, but can you blame them. You lied, aided your brother in doing something you KNEW he wasn't allowed to do, then lied again. Each lie is going to have to cover up another lie until you'll be so confused about what lie is what that you'll end up giving yourself away. Do yourself (and your brother) a favor and tell the truth before you get caught. Let your grandparents know you know you made a bad choice and were scared to admit it, but you realize that mature young women tell the truth, even when its hard and it might mean trouble. You can do this. It will be tough at first, but over time it won't seem so bad, and eventually, you'll gain your grandparent's trust again.
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