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I have had a boyfriend for 2 years on and off, 6 months straight and im starting to like a different guy, we hung out last night and he had his arm around me and stuff and i feel so bad that i did that but now i like both what should i do my boyfriend is the good guy doesnt drink or smoke but the other guy smokes weed and stuff, and my boyfriend is really mad at me right now he says i am a bitch to him but he has no idea about the other guy and the worst thing is they were once best friends, if me and my boyfriend are really broken up should i go 4 the other guy, or not because then he will never get back with me :'( so confused pealse help
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well first i would figure out what you like about each guy. and what you dislike about each guy. whatever suits you best you should go for. but it seems like you and your current boyfriend don't have a steady relationship. i don't know what your reasons for breaking up off and on for 2 years. but it doesn't seem like it's working out too well. maybe a new guy in the picture would be a good idea. but you don't need to hurt your current boyfriends feelings. don't tell him about the other guy right away. just let him know things aren't working out. maybe this new guy won't even work out. just take things slow and figure out what you want first.
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your b/f is obviously treating you like crap and im kinda in that problem too.. there's this guy that i like but he's really the opposite of everything i usually go for.. he does drugs too and he's like the total bad boy you dont ever bring home to parents lol.. but what im saying to you is that your b/f isn't working out for you.. its painful to do but the pain he's putting you through (going on and off again and all the emotional distress in between) isn't really worth it.. now if you have faith inyourself enough that you know you can hang out with this other guy and go out with him and not end up smoking and and all that other stuff then go for it.. but if its' too mcuh of a risk to try then don't go out with him.
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Dont take offense, however your boyfriend sounds like a goody goody and this boy sounds like the wild and daring type of guy that girls are usually attracted to. Its perfectly normal what has happened even though I dont agree with it. You obviously allowed this to happen because you are missing something with the guy you are currently with. If I was you I would get rid of them both and move on to bigger and better things.
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Before you decide what to do you should find out if you and him are broken up or not.
XOXO
Charmed-Cherry21
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