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Why Can't I trust him?
My boyfriend and I have been going out for almost three years (in nov it will be 3) well at the beginning of our relationship he cheated on me with this girl that HATES me, 2 months after I ended up finding out FROM HER! He then told me everything and all that, he said his reasoning was that we were ina huge right and his brother was being charged and might goto jail and everything was bad. The girl and him took pictures of them making out! (all they did was makeout) but the fact is he cheated one... When I found out it was so long after when it happened that I said we could work it out... well 3 years later I still think about it once and while... and I know he totally regrets what he did and that I have "punished" him enough but what I don't get is even now I am totally jealous and insecure when he wants to go out with his friends, I always think he is gonna cheat on me and he is getting really annoyed with my constant assuming... I don't know what i can do to stop assuming that he will cheat, I love him and I know he loves me I wnat to spend the rest of my life with him but I am so scared that something will happen again... what should i do? Any thing I can do to help stop my worrying?
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i think you should talk to him about how you feel and how scared you feel about him cheating on you again. you know once a cheater always a cheater. maybe he changed maybe not. you should see or if you notice any signs of cheating thats it broke it up, thats just too much to handle. ~natalie~
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I think I would have the same problem too. Just tell him that since he cheated its still in your mind, and your scared of losing him. I think you should just not say anything about not trusting him because that will start fights. To trust him again, well..after he cheated, this whole time has he always been good to you, and does what he says he'll do??...if yes, then you should trust this guy. Everyone makes mistakes but once you cheat, you might cheat again. But who knows..its different for lots of guys..just trust in him and yeah. If he dcheats again, break it off.
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