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friends who talk bad about you
dear erin,
what do you do if one of ur friends talks bad about you behind your back? i know for a fact she does this, because she says all the mean stuff to my best friend, who tells me. but she acts like nothing is wrong to my face! i don't know what to do, because it really makes me mad, but if i ask her about it, she turns it on me and says how much i hate her, even thought i don't! please help! thank ya!
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I am very familiar with this subject.In my opinion, I'd rather know what a person thinks of me by them telling it to my face, versus talking about me behind my back. One thing you definatly should NOT do is talk bad about this friend behind HER back because that would just bring you down to her level, and what would that get you? Though you are going to hate this, you HAVE to talk to her. Take her aside (it's better if she is in a good mood) and talk to her about it. Even though you might not realize it, your tone with her is probably not the nicest tone you could have. Don't accuse her of talking bad about you, but instead just calming ask if the things you heard are true. Keep calm through the whole time, and don't start ignoring her because you THINK she might be saying this things. I could go on about this for ever and have ALOT more advice about this. If you want you can IM me, and you should have my screenname because thats how you got this link! Good Luck and IM me if you need more help, I've been down this road ALOT and know how it works! Hope i Helped!
xOxo ErIn
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