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I'm always liking the 16,17,18 year olds and all they want is sex. And I dont like guys my age for some reason! I'm only 14 I dont want to be doing guys right now but I still want to be with a older guy..Is there ANY way I can go out with a older guy and not be expected to give him sexual stuff? I'm pretty sure I would do some stuff, if we were together long enough and we had a REAL relationship. But I dont want to get in a relationship where the guy thinks he's getting sex right away. You know? Help!
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Well, I'm 17, and my last girlfriend was 14. I never pressured her for sex; I never really even asked for it. Especially since the answer was no anyhow. But, I can understand how you feel. I can relate to the idea that you are maturing too fast and the people your age just seem so fucking stupid. But, the main reason the majority of guys would even consider dating a younger girl is that they think they are easier 'targets' for sex. They think it's easier to break down the wall in a younger girl than it is in an older one who's had time to build it up.
My personal statistics that I just made up say that 99.99% of all guys are dicks. It's all about finding that .01%, and it's hard. For me, age wasn't a matter at all; she just happened to be younger. But if you're looking specifically for an older guy you're going to have to be careful. The older we get, the less controllable our sex drives become. (The peak of a man's sex drive averages out at about 18 years old.)
At any rate, finding a decent guy is hard no matter what age group you're looking in. But good luck with your 'hunt'.
<3 - K'
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