Hello! I have this really big problem and no one seems to be able to help me. I am 15-year-old female in the 10th grade and I've never had a boyfriend. I used to wait around for a guy to ask me out, and seeing as how that never worked, I took my friends advice and tried being more confident. I have asked these guys that I have had crushes on since middle school and not one of them is interested. People say that I'm cute and have a great personality, but if this is true, why isn't anyone interested? What can I do to get a boyfriend that I'm not doing, or what can I improve on?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? wvsweetheart2006 answered Monday October 25 2004, 9:34 pm: Hrm, well what may be the answer to this problem is that, the guys you're asking view you more as a friend than a girlfriend. I'm very sure that you are a cute person with a fantastic personality =) but you really shouldn't push things like this. My friend for example, is in 11th grade (along with me), she really wishes that she could have a longterm boyfriend like I do. The Idea that I have is, that she's trying to hard. Love comes upon you (or a really cute boyfriend lol) when you least expect it. That's what happened to me.
If you just go with the flow of everyday life, having fun with your girls, shopping, hangin out iwth family or w/e....mr. right will come to you soon enough. But you can also go out and meet people. Go to a school dance, the mall, the movies...there's plenty of good cute guys hangin around...just make a move on one and see where that goes =) Oh and always always be confident....every guy wants a girl who can hold her head up high and not be ashamed or put herself down. =p The opportunity will come along eventually....just don't rush it =) Hope I helped any at all!!! You let me know by rating this advice. =) [ wvsweetheart2006's advice column | Ask wvsweetheart2006 A Question ]
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