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Friendship problems
Hey i have this friend thats really nice, but she gets kinda different when shes around like more popular people and it really annoys me, but when shes with me shes like the best person ever. How should i deal with her different personalities
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Shes probably just trying to fit in...and make them like her and stuff. Talk to her and be like "Why did you say blah blah blah when you were around _____ It didn't seem like smthn you'd normally say" or smthn like that. You could try to ignore it but then you'd just get madder and madder..so just talk to her about it or just say things like "I hate how all those popular people are really snobby" (*if they are) or "I think it's weird how people change to try to fit in" and if she really doesn't get it be like "I've kinda been noticing you've been acting different around me then other people like ___ and ____. Is everything ok?" and make it seem like you care or smthn (*not that you don't just like make it seem like you think theres a problem without really saying it so you're not lying about thinking theres a problem) but if she doesn't stop and you're really getting annoyed....maybe get a couple of your friends who feel the same way and tell her that she acts different around you guys then the more popular people and you're getting annoyed. That'd be kinda hard to do yourself so it'd be easier to get a group of people to talk to her about it
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