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Hey everyone...my best friend always seems to not follow through with her plans. Most of the time it's the fault of her parents cuz they can be pretty strict. I know I can't be mad at her for that, but sometimes I feel very frustrated that she can never hang out cuz i wanna spend time with her n stuff. And the times wen she says the can hang out, the next day il ask her if she can still hang and she'll say "maybe" or "idk" and then by the time she figures out she can't hang out it's too late to do n e thing about it. It just annoys me that even when she says she can hang out something always happens, is there anyway I can change this?
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sadly you really cant.. i know exactly wat your'e going through.. me and like my best friend of all time have been trying to hang out for like a month now (literally) and it's not working.. i have realllly strict parents too and her parents i sawer dont' like me(lol) but yeah.. you can't really do anything about it.. just wait it out and have to keep in mind that she probaly woudlnt go back on plans if she was a true friend and just when you guys do get to hang out... you make the best of it.. sorry =[
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i'm sure its pretty annoying. but she should not say she can hang out until she has talked to her parents and they have given her permission to do so. you could have her talk to her parents and set up maybe a couple hours per week that her parents will let yall hang out so it will be a planned thing and not so random..hope this helps...xOxooo
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Let her make the plans because there's nothing you can really do. If you confront her about it she'll just blame it all on her parents and like you said, you can't be mad at her for that. Let her know that you're willing to hang out but she has to make the first move. In the meantime hang out with some other friends.
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