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I just started my job about 2 weeks ago.I work with some HOTT guys!But anywayz...there is this guy I work with.Lets just call him "bob".Anywayz...Bob and I dont talk that much.Well...My friend also works with me and she asked bob if he had a g/f?and he said naw and she goes what about her?(talking about me)and he said yeah shes cute.Can I get her #?So...my friend gave it to him and he still hasnt called.That was 2 days ago.Hes really cute but hes the shy type of guy.How do I get to start talkin to him to get to know him better so he will feel more comfortable around me?I really want to get to know him better and he always texts my friends phone lookin for me.I want to flirt with him and stuff because my friend is really trying to hook us up.She asked him if were gonna go on a date and he said i dunno.LOL!She always does stuff like that!but anywayz...What are some good ways to make him open up to me and talk more around me?
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Hey Sweetie!! The first thing to remember is that you can't make someone open up to you. Because that's part of their own comfort level. Since he's kind of on the shy side that doesn't help much either. =P Typically shy people tend to need more work when it comes to opening up to people than -lets say- an outgoing person would. He might not feel comfortable starting a conversation, so in this case you should consider being the one to start it. The more and more you talk to him each day, the eaiser it will be for him. He'll get used to you and find out more about you which will probably lead into opening up with you more. I've heard that people begin to get comfortable when they know more about the person. So don't be afraid to let him know what you like and dislike. I'm sure he'll have some things in common as you do and he might share that with you. For example if you mention what your favorite movie is, and it's his favorite movie too...there's one way to invite him somewhere. You can ask if he wants to hang out and watch that movie and your house. Sometimes girls have to make the first move, and that's okay with guys. I bet he will appreciate it too. He already thinks you're a cutie, and he probably likes you very much but he's afraid to say that. And you might be too...but if you probably start conversations he'll respect that. Good luck babe! I'm always here, so if you need anything else let me know!
Love,
Mandee
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