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oLdEr mAn?!?!
oK: so i figured i'd ask you this... since ur a 31 year old guy... i'm 16/f and i know this is gonna seem super weird... but i think i kinda have feelings for my neigbor who is 32... hes married though and i might just be thinking this... cuz hes super nice 2 me... but i think he wants me 2... cuz the stuff he says and the way he looks at me. i think about him sexually alot 2! i know that that is illegal/weird... but you can't really help who u like. so my question for you is: do you think this is weird? would you ever do anything like this? what should i dO? should i stay away from him or see if he feels the same. i dont want 2 ruin his marriage... but i really want this guy! please don't judge me or ne thing... i Just wanna kno!
thaNx so muCh!!!
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First off, he's a guy... and I can say from experience that all guys flirt (ok, not all of us, but most of us anyway...)
The way his mind works and the ways yours works are light-years apart at this stage. He lives on his own, in the "real world". You still live in a sheltered environment. You're litterally half his age.
All that said, temptation has lead to situations like this. And often people make poor decisions. For one, he's married, he knows what sex is all about and expects it. Such things would be illegal with you. Even if you consented, you are not a legal adult, so while statutory rape would not be a possible charge against him, "corruption of a minor" would be. And relationships like that would never last in secret - someone will find out.
And you've already said that he's married... would you want to be responsible for potentially not only sending this guy to prison, but ending a relatinship he has with someone to whom he is supposed to be committed to for all times?
Odd are, you'll find out that you have absolutely nothing in common, because odd are that you have very little in common with this guy... or you'll get over him just as fast as this crush has overtaken you and your eyes will be set upon someone else.
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