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so confused
my friend's boy friend just broke up with her. This guy happens to be my X boy friend... (2 times might i add) She is torn, he has called me every night since and he's been flirting wiht me a lot, and always wants to see if i can do things with him. Things between me and him and I are getting to strong but my boyfriend isnt taking it all too well. My boy friend, well hes great hes a cute and spontanious guy, but sometimes i feel like there are better epople out there. And i know that my X and i have broken up 2 times beforee, and that i shouldnt trust him... but the thing is both times it last for so long, and the ending was always because of distance and being too young, after all im only 15... i started going out with him for the first time when i was 11... maybe im crazy, but i dont know.... If i brek up with my boyfriend he'll be so upset... if i go out with my x, my friend will hate me.... and most of all i will hate myself. I let myself down, I let the one thing that ive worked so hard to stay away from work its way back to me. I've made what i hate most a part of me... WHAT SHOULD I DO =(
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well this guy seems to be jumping back and forth with you. and if your friend just had her heart broken from him AND you already have a boyfriend. id say wait this one out for a while. firstly because your friend needs you around without him until she can move on to better things. secondly, what is so different about going out with your ex than before? wont the distance and age still bother you? if you dont want to hurt your friend or boyfriend, FORGET ABOUT THIS GUY. he's just going to play you all over again. who wants that? i hope you dont. stick with what you've got now, or at least wait a while. if letting this guy back into your life makes you feel horrible- then dont let him! let him flirt all you want, it doesnt mean you have to feel bad about yourself or the decision you make. YOU need to do what feels GOOD for you. not what makes you feel bad. make your decision for the best interests in you. my advice- forget your ex. =] -ask_anything
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