Hey, well ok look you have helped me a lot.. but now i need help once again i went out with this girl her name is terry she is in my grade. When i asked terry out she said yes but today she dumped me and she just went out with me because she felt bad for me. i dunno it seems like i can't get a girl. and plus i have been hurt to many times.
i read my bible and pray but my heart still aches. is there anything i can do i try to hang with my friends and stuff but it doesn't seem to help. is there a salution to this pain in my heart.
thnx
Monn
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? misunderstood64 answered Saturday October 9 2004, 12:50 pm: I know it's defintely tough. But one thing is you don't need a girlfriend right now. I'm not sure how old you are but seeing as I'm 14 almost 15 sometimes I think I can't get a guy either. Seems like every guy I like isn't available, and i was in a lot of pain to. But then I realized something, dating someone is for marriage and maybe God is just trying to save me from giving my heart out to some guy and I met and save it for that one awesome guy. Don't worry about the girls when you meet that really great girl it will be cool to be able to tell her you haven't given your heart away, it will mean a lot to her. My "boyfriend" is God right now. I just stay close to him and he fills my heart so I don't have any pain. Sometimes I'll want one but the I'll just think of that awesome guy to come and how much I want to save myself for him. Talk to God about how ur feeling ask him to help fill ur heart and take away ur pain. Good luck, sry to hear u seem like a really cool guy. :) [ misunderstood64's advice column | Ask misunderstood64 A Question ]
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