alright this is X Lissa X but i need advice... since FOREVER like a year ive been still in love with my ex and i was getting over it but i still cant and i just love him sooo much and miss him and im so sad all the time even though i see a counselor and take zoloft for depression! what do i do? i wanna be with him so bad, he completes me...omg im sooo confused i cant handle it. i havent cried for so long since ive been on these pills but now i just wanna and i know im just going to go and cry myself to sleep. someone please help me n tell me what to do. i just love him like crazy..is sumfin messed up w/ me? grrr just help me out aiight. thankz a lot.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? xO_preciiousz_tearsz answered Friday October 8 2004, 4:51 pm: omq ii know exactly how you feel !! ii was in that position too and it sOo sucked . but you have to think about why the two of you broke up in the first place . if it`sz somethinq small then chancesz are y`all can work it out . if ii were you, ii`d let him know how you feel and how you want him back and everythinq else you want him to know and see how he reactsz . oh and somethinq else you miqht wanna think about: how many timesz have y`all qone out ? cuz ii was with one of my boyfriend`sz and we were on and off for 7 monthsz and somethinq just kept brinqinq me back to him sOo if it`sz meant to be then it`ll work out . just qive it time and no matter what don`t do anythinq stupid . no quy is worth that much . qood luck with everythinq and ii hope it qoesz your way . lemme know how thinqsz turn out !!
Tarebear109 answered Thursday October 7 2004, 11:17 pm: i know how u feel i want my guy back really bad too but i lost my virginity to him... eek.. Maybe u should just talk to him and tell him how you feel.. if that doesnt work dont worry about it maybe you two can be a little tiny bit more than friends and he will realize that he still likes u flirt with him let him kno that u are interested.... dont worry if none of those things work... there is another guy out there that you will feel the same way about well good luck [ Tarebear109's advice column | Ask Tarebear109 A Question ]
XoangelanicoleoX answered Thursday October 7 2004, 11:01 pm: ok hun...i know exactly how you feel. i was in the same postition for a while before i met my current boyfriend. it sucks! but you guys must have not worked out for some reason. and one day ur gonna meet a guy who will treat you great and everything (just like i did!) and you'll forget about bein sad and everything...even though it might take some time it'll happen..and no theres nothin mussed up w/ you..but i used to sit and cry and think i would never move on, but believe me gurl you will! i hope everything works out for ya..good-luck!!! [ XoangelanicoleoX's advice column | Ask XoangelanicoleoX A Question ]
laurengotback015 answered Thursday October 7 2004, 10:53 pm: Talk to him about it. Tell him you still have feelings for him and all that stuff. If he doesn't feel the same it's best to hang out with your friends for awhile or make some new...you might find a better guy out there...it's defiantley possible! There's so many guys out there that will treat you right so find ya one! Good luck! Hope I helped!!! [ laurengotback015's advice column | Ask laurengotback015 A Question ]
Farren answered Thursday October 7 2004, 10:33 pm: Does he still have feelings for you? Could be you guys ended it too abruptly when there was still feelings.
I think you should talk to him about it, maybe you guys never achieved closure.
Exploring the other fish in the sea might help, look for another guy to possibly start a new relationship with to forget about the old one.
I don't think you're messed up, your just afflicted by love. I don't really know what it's like to care about a guy like you care about your ex, so my advice might not be very good.
Oh well, I tried. I'll pray for you hun.
-Farren [ Farren's advice column | Ask Farren A Question ]
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